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 COMING SOON!   COMING SOON — THE ESSENTIAL RED FLAG IN RELATIONSHIP The Essential Red Flag in a Relationship By Itoro Uwah  Are you tired of toxic relationships where truth becomes the enemy?  Have you ever confronted someone for doing wrong, only to be blamed, gaslighted, and distanced?  Have you watched people justify their actions while punishing those who dare to speak the truth? In The Essential Red Flag in Relationship, author Itoro Uwah takes you deep into the hidden patterns of:  Self-justifying pride  Emotional manipulation  Gaslighting tactics  Psychological traps Spiritual blindness This book is not just another relationship manual — it is a powerful survival guide for anyone facing the painful dynamics of being punished for speaking the truth. With insights from spiritual, psychological, scientific, ideological, and emotional perspectives, Itoro Uwah unpacks: Why do defensive wrongdoers refuse correction? How gaslighting destroys...

  New Book Children as the First Test' by Itoro Uwah Set to Ignite Global Conversation on Parenting, Purpose, and Legacy Abuja, Nigeria — Children as the First Test, the upcoming book by an African author, counsellor, and founder of BEFOCUS Children and Youth Foundation, Itoro Uwah, is stirring powerful anticipation across communities, institutions, and parenting networks worldwide. The book is a bold, deeply insightful call to reimagine parenting — not just as a personal responsibility but as the first test of human talent and value to the world. In a society overwhelmed by technological breakthroughs, shifting values, and rapid globalization, Uwah asks the central question: "What are we passing on to our children — and why?" > "Raising a child without the future in mind is more dangerous than the deadliest weapon ever designed," says Uwah in what has quickly become one of the book's most quoted lines. Drawing from real-life observations, spiritual and p...

The Book Every Generation Needs: “Children as the First Test” by Itoro Uwah Something powerful is coming. A book that doesn’t just ask questions — it demands answers. A book that will challenge how we raise children, how we pass on values, and how we shape the world of tomorrow. “Children as the First Test” is not just another book on parenting. It is a wake-up call. A revelation. A legacy. Written by Itoro Uwah — father, counselor, widower, and founder of the BEFOCUS Children and Youth Foundation — this book unveils a truth that many have felt but few have dared to say: “Raising a child without the future in mind is more dangerous than the deadliest weapon ever designed.” Why This Book Matters Now In a time where technology is evolving faster than values... Where culture celebrates instant success but forgets long-term impact... Where parents are overwhelmed, and children are exposed to more than they’re prepared for... This book is a lifeline. It explores the conce...

  Beyond Generations: How Valuing People Can Heal Workplaces and Humanity We often talk about generational differences in the workplace as though they’re obstacles—Baby Boomers are too rigid, Millennials too entitled, Gen Z too sensitive. But while these distinctions may stem from real historical and cultural shifts, our obsession with them distracts us from a deeper truth : People are not problems to manage. They are lives to understand. If you're leading a team and your management style—whether subtly or openly—signals that you don’t fully value certain individuals because of their age, you will encounter the symptoms: disengagement, quiet resistance, anger, or withdrawal. But there’s one thing every generation has in common: the deep, human need to be seen, heard, and valued. Lead with Human Curiosity Start by doing something simple—but powerful: engage in real conversation. Ask each person on your team thoughtful questions that go beyond the surface: “What motivates you right n...

  The Death of Conscience: A Nation's Fast-Track Decline in Values By: Itoro Uwah  In the past two decades, Nigeria has witnessed not just a shift, but a dangerous erosion in the very core of what defines a people — integrity, dignity, family values, posterity, gender pride, conscience, morals, ethics, and spiritual sincerity. What was once unthinkable has now become entertainment. What was sacred is now scoffed at. And the nonsense that should have remained at the margins of decency has been repackaged as content — celebrated, sold, and spread. This is not just a lamentation. It is a clarion call backed by cold data and burning reality. The Speed of Decay: 2000 to 2025 in Perspective From the turn of the millennium, Nigeria's cultural compass began to spin uncontrollably. A graph mapping the acceptance, adoption, and participation in trends that oppose traditional values tells a terrifying story: 2000–2005: Decline began slowly — roughly 15% acceptance of questionable moral s...

 South-East Under Siege: RULAAC, Civil Societies Slam FG Over Deadly Herdsmen Attacks ... "Innocent lives are being wasted while the government looks away," groups cry out A storm of outrage is sweeping through Nigeria's South-East as civil society groups, led by the Rule of Law and Accountability Advocacy Centre (RULAAC), sound the alarm over what they describe as an epidemic of violence unleashed by suspected herdsmen. In a gripping report by Sahara Reporters, the coalition painted a chilling picture of life in the region—where communities are being ravaged by incessant killings, kidnappings, destruction of farmlands, and mass displacements. The most shocking part? According to them, the Nigerian security forces are doing little or nothing to stop it. "This is beyond a security lapse—it's a complete breakdown of protection for citizens," the coalition declared, citing the daily horrors rural dwellers face in states like Enugu, Ebonyi, Anambra, and Imo. Far...